A happy person can win friends easily. A smile
is the strongest tool of these people, and they can defeat lots of challenges
before that start hitting their mind. Positivity helps a person in seeing the
brighter side of the things, and he can appreciate the bigger picture without
giving into the difficulties posed by immediate failures. So, here are some
tips that you must consider for boosting the positive side of your personality.
1.Always try to break your problems into small tasks
2.Patience and perseverance can keep you motivated
3.Strike a balance between your thinking and other's thought process
When you have just tried something new, it may not turn out to be perfect in one go. It is always necessary to be ready for facing the feedback. Some may like you; others may not. If it is a boss and employee situation, feedback are only meant to improve the quality of work and to add to your capabilities. In today's world, where very few areas require specialized talent, there is always a scope for learning and adapting to newer ways of doing things. Thus, try to incorporate feedback as guidelines for future tasks in your mind. It allows you to stay courageous throughout a given tenure.
1.Always try to break your problems into small tasks
A problem always appears bigger if you allow
it to sit on your head. Procrastinating approach aggravates the situation
further and tendency to face the music while simply cribbing over the issue can
dilute your capacity to give your problems a big fight. Thus, it is important
that you divide the problem into simpler and solvable tasks and try to attain a
sense of achievement so that you feel strong at mind. For example, suppose you
are all of a sudden transferred to an entirely new city. New, as well as
unknown circumstances, pose the problem of adjusting to the situations, proving
yourself and also making your presence felt in the newer set of coordinates.
So, you can tackle this challenge simply by taking each day at a time. Adjust,
act and then try to excel, but do not set benchmarks in haste.
2.Patience and perseverance can keep you motivated
Taking each day as an offering and a new
beginning can help you stay hopeful about the brighter future. If you keep on focusing
the silver streak in the cloud, you will continue putting efforts that may help
you achieve better. You will feel more courageous in aiming for higher with
added confidence.
Positivity is all about maintaining proper
attitude. Never get carried away by your successes, nor you should feel too bad
about the failures. Only dead can be perfect, living entities can only strive
for perfection.
3.Strike a balance between your thinking and other's thought process
Negativity can creep in immediately if people
around start intimidating you with their ideologies and philosophies. Every
person has his individual set of cause and effect and this he builds up only
after experience. So, give space in your life for trying new things and seeing
their effect too. Of course, the opinion of experienced people matters but
openness to new thoughts and the belief in your way of working is equally
important. So, listen to your heart, try new avenues and analyze loopholes on
your own instead of giving a chance to others to post-mortem your causes of
failures. If you insist on solving your problems on your own with the back-up
of your values, you will feel positive and strong even when difficulties appear
in your path.
4.Do not forget to appreciate yourself
You are most accountable to yourself before to
anybody else. So, appreciating your efforts and realizing the positive impact
of your actions can help you in building effectiveness in your personality.
Appreciation induces confidence, and you are able to take up new challenges
with added vigour. Thus, always focus on how your actions become instrumental
in the overall bigger picture.
5.Try to take feedbacks positively
When you have just tried something new, it may not turn out to be perfect in one go. It is always necessary to be ready for facing the feedback. Some may like you; others may not. If it is a boss and employee situation, feedback are only meant to improve the quality of work and to add to your capabilities. In today's world, where very few areas require specialized talent, there is always a scope for learning and adapting to newer ways of doing things. Thus, try to incorporate feedback as guidelines for future tasks in your mind. It allows you to stay courageous throughout a given tenure.
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